Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Thursday, September 25, 2014

Dear Ladies; Let's Be Realistic: Men will tend to Go Their Own Ways.


(A tip of the ole fedora to Saneity http://sanelity.com/2014/09/another-brick-in-the-wall/ who scooped me on this subject.)

What did you women expect? I have to ask!


30 Is the New 50: Old Age Is Killing My Dating Life


Did you really think you could fool nature? Come on! You're supposed to be the ones who are in tune with nature!





Monday, September 22, 2014

NOT A MGTOW!

Recent headline:

It could have been you, Kim! Billionaire Richard Lugner, 81, (who called Kardashian 'annoying') marries Playboy model, 24

I do have to admit his billions can shield him from a lot...

The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly is to fill the world with fools.
─ Herbert Spencer, English Philosopher (1820-1903)

But not being foolish!


Sunday, September 21, 2014

Marriage Old School

What 'War Brides' of the Greatest Generation knew about marriage http://www.gibrides.com/ 

I love these shows set in WWII Britain, like Foyle's War.  There are war brides in my immediate ancestry. 

Monday, September 15, 2014

MGTOW vs. Marriage

The United Singles of America by Dr. Helen Smith


Dr. Smith quotes and discusses a recent article on the decline of marriage in the USA. This is the money quote for me:

Given the lack of due process, the tendency to blame men for relationship problems and unequal treatment in domestic relations, men might be better off not living too long with any one woman. This is bad for society and families, but might be a better solution for individual men. 

I agree. That's why I call myself one of the MGTOW.


Saneity produces some interesting charts and presents his analysis: 

Observing the Decline: Single is now the preferred lifestyle
 
"I'm thirty and I want to get married now. Where's Mr. Right?"

Well, Ms. Libbie, he's buying drinks for some 22 year old. If it's any consolation, he's not going to marry her either.


Marriage In Decline


The mainstream media has been commenting on the declining rate of marriage world wide. I think the decline itself is because men are wising up to how dangerous it is under today's laws. I think the MSM runs the occasional story because it distresses the entire marriage-divorce industry, which impacts its advertising revenue. The MSM's feminist wing is bitching about it, so they have plenty of internal pressure to do a story too. (Feminists bitching about something? Imagine my surprise. What's next?)


Marriage is declining globally: Can you say that? http://familyinequality.wordpress.com/2013/06/12/marriage-is-declining/


They (the feminists and their MSM patsies) think it's our fault too, but they think it's because we are defective. So, ladies, how come you're so eager to marry a defective? Is it so you can divorce the living shit out of him in a few years?


I learned from the mistakes of the married men around me. From childhood on, I've witnessed grossly unhappy marriages and brutally punishing divorces. Yes, it's the men who were unhappy and punished. It's safe to say, I've been MGTOW since my preteen years.



Wednesday, September 10, 2014

My Wife Is Crazy

The title speaks for itself, only it's not a humorous satire. It is all too true.

19 Signs That You’re Dating Or Married To A Crazy Bitch http://clashdaily.com/2014/09/19-signs-youre-dating-married-crazy-bitch/
 
A few former girlfriends score high on this list. Fortunately, I'm well away from them now. Whew! I Went My Own Way.

A friend recommends this book, which the reviews say is funny:


A Gentleman's Guide To Avoiding Marriage: The Absolutely, Most Compelling Reasons A Man Should NEVER Marry. Paperback – September 16, 2010
by Omar Riedman (Author), Kali Pinckney (Author), Carrie Constantino (Editor)





Monday, September 8, 2014

Why I'm a MGHOW


I've Never Married. (I've had some near misses, but I escaped in the end.) I'm a Man Going His Own Way. Here's a collection of articles and videos that explains what to me is the obvious. 

Are monastics and hippies and poets relevant? No, we’re deliberately irrelevant. We live with an ingrained irrelevance which is proper to every human being. The marginal person accepts the basic irrelevance of the human condition, an irrelevance which is manifested above all by the fact of death.
- Thomas Merton, “Clouds and Water”

Just when I thought I was out...they pull me back in.
- Michael Corleone, "The Godfather III"

Video: 


Sandman hits the mark! (Yes, I've had this done to me.)

Then there is the marriage ceremony and reception. The expense is damnable.

Articles:

The prenup is just another hurdle for one side to overcome…” http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2014/09/03/the-prenup-is-just-another-hurdle-for-one-side-to-overcome/

Famous wedding resort will offer weekend ‘divorce packages’ http://nypost.com/2014/09/04/famous-wedding-resort-will-offer-weekend-divorce-packages/

In praise (not!) of feminism


I'm a Feminist and I Hate Being a Woman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpudFRSBG3Q

After the inevitable divorce ...

RETIRE CHEAP IN THAILAND - Lesson # 1 - Accommodation; Where, How Much and Why? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDQ7nRFnNSc


Sunday, August 31, 2014

Let's All Hook Up Today!

This makes me want to rush out and get a wife or girl friend ... NOT!

She Was Caught on Camera Beating Him with a Metal Pole, but He’s the One in Jail after Cops ‘Refused to Look at the Video’
http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2014/08/30/she-was-caught-on-camera-beating-him-with-a-metal-pole-but-hes-the-one-in-jail-after-cops-refused-to-look-at-the-video/

The Economics of Sex and MGTOW

A series of links lead me to this video,




In my view, everything we do is a form of economic transaction, meaning we trade our time or money for something we want.  Here are three examples:
  • We spend a day hanging out with friends, and trade time for companionship.
  • We spend a day at work, and trade time for wages.
  • We trade our wages for the latest video game.
You get the idea.

Was the trade a good one? That is the same as asking if the cost was worth the benefit. This brings me to Men Going Their Own Way:

Is marriage worth the cost under today's laws and social customs?

Is dating worth its cost?

Are you better off spending your time working out and enjoying a hobby, or going club hopping?

Which costs less time and money and provides a greater benefit in the form of getting laid, (1) club hopping, or (2) hiring a high quality escort?

We live in a world where men are literally robbed by the courts because a wife or girlfriend decided to use the legal system against them. Is the risk (which is a form of cost) worth the benefit of female companionship?

Whatever choices you make in your life, I hope the cost/benefit ratio always comes out in your favor.



Sunday, August 24, 2014

MGTOW Blog


Good article, good blog: 

 
Cooking gets honorable mention.



Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Not All Women Are Like That

NAWALT is a fact. There might not be many, but it's statistically impossible that the number be zero.
Just when you give up all hope on humanity, these come along. There are good links in the sidebars too.

 
 
Umm ... I am not saying you should run down to the bar or club and beg some broad to marry you. I don't think there is a high percentage of NAWALTs in the population of barflies.

If you do find a perfect NAWALT angel, will she stay that way? No, probably not. More likely, she will turn out to be a normal human female like all the others. The odds are against you.

Wedlock - Benjamin Franklin, Poor Richard's Almanack. May, 1734. 

Wedlock, as old men note, hath likened been,
Unto a public crowd or common rout;
Where those that are without would fain get in,
And those that are within, would fain get out.
Grief often treads upon the heels of pleasure,
Marry'd in haste, we oft repent at leisure;
Some by experience find these words missplaced,
Marry'd at leisure, they repent in haste.



Friday, August 8, 2014

MGTOW Fairy Tale

All the more funny because it's true!
The Shortest Fairytale In The World https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFRlmCPMNVM
I would have gone for a Harley, but hey, whatever floats your boat!